How to Pick a School: Education Philosophy
What Is Your Family’s Education Philosophy?
My husband and I knew—before even having kids—that we wanted an educational system that inspired a lifelong curiosity. We didn’t believe in homework until middle school, and we quickly realized we were Montessori parents.
As you reflect on your own philosophy, consider what of your education experience did you appreciate and want to reflect? Is it relevant? Also, what diversity means to your family. Are you looking for ethnic diversity? Socio-economic diversity? A new cultural or learning experience for your child?
One area that is often overlooked is food accommodations. Our family has food restrictions due to both religion and allergies, so we needed a school that took that worked with us—not just in the cafeteria, but during classroom parties, field trips, and school-wide events. We believe this is a key part of what true inclusion looks like. For example, offering a veggie platter isn’t an adequate accommodation for a vegetarian child.
We didn’t initially consider the importance of a community-based school and its impact on a child’s social development. Some private schools draw students from a specific neighborhood, which creates a built-in community feel. The schools we chose weren’t in our immediate area, and our children felt that socially. I believe social happiness is just as important as academic success.
Choosing a school outside your local community often requires extra effort to build friendships and stay involved. Some parents love the car ride as quality time to catch up with their kids—but to be honest, many days our kids were simply too tired to talk. Reducing commute time, if possible, is something to seriously consider.
Below Are Some Key Factors to Consider When Choosing a School (Public or Private):
Family Learning Goals
Are you motivated by performance or a love of learning?
What aspects of your own education do you want to replicate?
Is the learning approach relevant to the world your child is growing up in?
What does education mean to your family—beyond test scores?
Technology Use
How much technology is integrated into daily instruction?
Are students expected to complete homework or lessons online?
We want our children to be tech-savvy, but over-dependence on screens can create its own set of challenges.
Community (Student and Parent)
Is there a strong sense of belonging among families?
Are there opportunities for parent involvement?
Learning Support
Are there specialists available to support different learning needs?
Administrative Support
What is teacher turnover like?
Are administrators visible and accessible?
(Do you see them during carpool? Do they interact with the students?)How responsive are they to parent concerns?
Other Considerations
Core Values
Fine arts offerings
Language courses
School size
Diversity (in all forms)
Location
References or feedback from current families